There are basically 2 ways that you can feel yourself come through the ball; one is a powerless shove of the club into the ball and the other feels like a powerful swat or whip through the ball to a target. Obviously you are looking for the latter. The culprit is an incomplete backswing that does not allow you to feel that you can whip the club with ease. This video was inspired by a student of mine who was having trouble with her backswing and the analogy in question did the trick in spades! I know it will help you too.